Your desire to meet that special someone, keeps the men or women coming, but your belief in bad relationships causes you to push them away.
Your attention to unwanted characteristics makes it impossible for the characteristics that you desire to come to you.
If you continually focus on the characteristic you don’t like in the partners you are meeting, your chronic attention to the lack in others is what’s keeping you from feeling good about yourself or about anyone.
If you are a person who has trained themselves to look for positive aspects, you will find them in yourself as well as in others.
If you are a person who has trained themselves to look for negative aspects, you will find them in yourself as well as in others.
Therefore it is always accurate to say that those who are critical of others really don’t like themselves. Whenever you see those who are very critical of others, you are actually seeing people who do not like themselves.
When you really like yourself and are in harmony with who you are, your appreciation of others flows abundantly and when that is the case, wonderful things flow steadily to you.
When you are out of alignment, which translates to you feeling bad, the Law of Attraction can only match you up with others who also feel bad, and when that happens those relationships are unpleasant and uncomfortable.
For the most part, we choose to focus on the worst in one another, rather than the best in one another. The Results are “uncomfortable and unpleasant relationships”.
You are a powerful magnet, attracting unto you the way that you feel at any point in time.